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I support people who want to change their lives. As a coach the support I offer takes a variety of forms: ally, listener, supporter, motivator, mirror, teacher, conduit, advocate and friend. I believe that each of us has a wealth of experience and wisdom inside but that many of us need support and encouragement to learn how to live a life sourced from that wisdom and experience.


Fun, play, adventure, beauty, community—these are integral aspects of life and important components of inner work! I offer a few different opportunities a year to step away from the routine, get out of the mind, have some fun out in nature, spend some time with like-hearted people, and perhaps have a profound experience while journeying with others into the unknown…


My process involves interviewing the couple about their relationship, love, marriage, vision for life together, and vision for the ceremony itself. From that I craft a ceremony that is unique to the couple. We edit it together until it feels right. It is a real joy to officiate ceremonies that couples feel reflect who they truly are.

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Saunter the Sierra

Join me in 2019 for a soulful exploration into the heart of the California’s Sierra Nevada. This 2-week trip will be a once in a lifetime journey and it will sell out.

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Choosing a Personal Practice

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How to use a break up to better your life

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“When I dare to be powerful, to use my strength in the service of my vision, then it becomes less and less important whether I am afraid.”

- Audre Lorde

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“Take all the rules away. How can we live if we don’t change?”

- Beyonce Knowles

Our Life Together...

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