From Conflict to Cocreation: An Evolutionary Path to Relationship with Evverything

From Conflict to Co-creation: An Evolutionary Path to Relationship with Everything

Both internal and external conflict alike have 3 very simple roles: victim, persecutor and rescuer. We’re going to look at this pattern and what happens when those roles and the energy underlying them is elevated. Besides it being far more fun to participate in the Co-commitment and Co-creation triangles, they also help us practice embodying concepts like abundance, unconditional love, tolerance for diversity, empowerment and trust. This model aligns with organizational research on flow states and has implications for leaders in the workplace as well. In this workshop relationship is defined as the behaviors, thoughts, and feelings that we have with any person, place, thing, idea, etc. We have relationships with ourselves and other people. But we also have relationships with substances, with ideas like work, religion and money, and with physical entities such as our own bodies. The dynamics described by this model underlie all conflict, codependence, substance abuse, self-sabotage, and a variety of other common “relational” issues. This workshop is based on the book “The Power of Humility.” The tools and understandings shared can lead to greater empowerment in all areas of life including our relationships with our selves, families, friends, work/career, etc. For more information, please contact Dashielle at dashielle@illumin.co. $10-$20 love offering requested; no one turned away for lack of funds. About Dashielle Vawter Dashielle is a Coach, Singer/Songwriter, Minister, Vision Quest and Mountain Guide. After a heart opening/spiritual awakening in 2008 she left the nonprofit path, adopted a spiritual practice and began exploring what it meant to lead with her heart. It’s been a wild road — political campaigns, teaching art, working on a local food documentary, studying Earth-based ways of prayer with the Center for Sacred Studies, starting and then dropping out of grad school, running a backpacking company, living a semi-nomadic life for several years, etc. She founded Illumin in 2014 as a hub for coaching, teaching, and helping people get into the wild to connect with each other and the Earth. She is currently living in Nevada City, coaching, offering workshops, working as a designer in residence with Project Wayfinder at the Stanford Design School, and trying to practice singing every day!